i know it is frustrating when things like this happened.. it is the fear of the unknown that makes you emotional
i know it is nowhere near what you are going though but when josh was born (on a friday) we were told that we would be going home on the monday, then the tuesday, then the wednesday.. we finally went home on the thursday, afterwards i realised i was stressing over nothing.. but when i was in hospital it felt like i was in there so long that i wouldnt be able to cope with looking after josh without the midwife outside my room!
we are all sent these things to test us. keep your head up and stay strong, we are all here for you
What a nightmare for you - that's so annoying when they keep you hanging like that, bad enough that you've had to deal with the date changing but messing you about by not calling too
Sounds like you and hubby have done the best thing, at least by making that decision together you've taken back some of the control. Hope you get some confirmation of a new date soon so that you can concentrate on having your new little one and then get Holly's op out of the way afterwards. Take care x