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Post by Rilith on May 1, 2008 11:51:52 GMT
It started at 11 with a bit of bleeding, passing a few clots. Knew deep down that a bleed like that it wasn't going to be good news. Then by 3 I was in pain so went to have a lie down, at 5 I passed the baby and flooded everywhere, it was like someone had turned on a tap and left it. It wasn't slowing, so had to go A&E. At 9.30 I was taken into theatre for a D&C, it was the only thing left to do. I am OK, drained and emotionally frazzled, but coping. Thankfully Carl and I have been through therapy before and know the importance of talking and processing everything that has happened. Sooooo There we are.
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Post by mum2rachel on May 1, 2008 12:05:17 GMT
Oh Rilith, I am so sorry to read your news, take care of yourself & Carl- with love & prayers for you all. Susan
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Post by pinkshell1110 on May 1, 2008 12:17:29 GMT
so sorry babe, take care of yourselves lots of love n hugs shell xxxxxxxxxxxx
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Post by claireyd22 on May 1, 2008 13:04:55 GMT
Oh Rilith I'm so sorry for you. I hope you are ok. Take care of yourself. Thinking of you. Lots of love Claire and George xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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Post by nikki on May 1, 2008 15:13:26 GMT
so sorry to read that rilth thinking of you and carl nikki and georgia x x x x x
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Post by sharon22 on May 1, 2008 15:17:31 GMT
rilith thinking about you and the family
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Post by lisajg on May 1, 2008 15:42:40 GMT
So sorry to hear that Rilith, thinking of you and your family. Take care, big hugs xxxx
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Post by sarah on May 1, 2008 18:31:47 GMT
I'm so sorry for your news. Look after yourselves xxx
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Post by max on May 1, 2008 18:49:45 GMT
Oh Rilith I'm so so so sorry - having been pregnant then not recently myself I know how much it hurts, but I also know saying that won't make it any better. It's so common and there are lots of people who can sympathise - I also know this won't help you now, but it helped me feel less alone later on.
Take care of yourself and allow plenty of time to heal. It sounds like it was a nasty ordeal physically with the hospital emergency treatment as well! Sending lots of hugs. xxxx
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Post by pëngui on May 1, 2008 21:31:24 GMT
I am sorry to hear this news Rilly. You sound really strong and I am glad you and Carl have had some therapy previously. I personally know what your feeling, you take some rest and look after each other. gx
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Post by vickia on May 2, 2008 8:19:00 GMT
Just wanted to send you a BIG HUG and let you know that we're sorry about the news.
Vicki & Thomas xx
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Post by shirley on May 2, 2008 9:14:05 GMT
Awww Rilith, I am so sorry you are going through this right now, take care xxxxx
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Post by tracy108 on May 2, 2008 13:23:35 GMT
aww riley you take care of ya self missus....xx
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Post by anita on May 2, 2008 16:36:32 GMT
So sorry to hear that, I know myself how much it hurts, same thing happened to me before I fell pregnant with Henri. Take care of yourself loads of hugs. Love Anita
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Post by mrsdavies on May 2, 2008 16:50:54 GMT
So sorry Rilith sending huge hugs for you and your family x
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Post by heather1979 on May 2, 2008 17:37:35 GMT
Rilith i am sooo sorry Hun ,i really thought you'd be ok and that this wouldnt happen.I dont know if you've ever been through this before but this is pregnancy number 8 for me and it still doesnt seem real for me as i know that so may things can go wrong it wont seem real till its here. I just hope that your ok and if you try again that everything will go well. I go on babycenter,there is a board called coping with a miscarraige and theres trying after a miscarriage,both of these boards are fantastic and there are some wonderfull ladies on there who will be ready with (((((hugs))))) when you need them. Sending you lots of love and ((((((big hugs))))) Heather.xxxx
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Post by michellebean on May 2, 2008 17:53:52 GMT
I am so very sorry to read your news. Having been there 5 times before i think i can understand what you and your family must be going through. You are so right with the talking and processing everything as part of the healing process - its so important. Take good care Love Michelle x
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Post by tantalizintina on May 3, 2008 20:58:19 GMT
so sorry to read this x take care huni x
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Post by debs4 on May 3, 2008 21:13:33 GMT
Sorry to hear your sad news. Thinking of you all. Love Debbie xx
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Post by lesley on May 4, 2008 13:22:32 GMT
So sorry to hear to hear your sad news. You take real good care of yourself xx
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Post by odiness on May 4, 2008 23:44:56 GMT
Awwww Rilly, am so sorry sweety. Hope you and Carl are ok. Loads of hugs from me and Jasmine. x
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Post by lizzymd² on May 10, 2008 19:58:46 GMT
Awww So sorry for your loss, Glad you and Carl are able to talk about it. Big huge hugs from the Dixon bunch
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Post by Rilith on May 12, 2008 18:41:12 GMT
Thanks Everyone. You really are all lovely.
XXXX
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Post by michelle1987 on May 14, 2008 17:17:42 GMT
hey hun hugs how u now hun xxx
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