Have had all sorts of odd problems so went for a scan and seems I'm not pregnant, it's my hormones messing me around! They faked it! Or it might have been a really early miscarriage but nothing there now! I'm sort of sad but not really as it's not like we lost anything! We can go back to our original plan of trying later in the year!
no one mentioned a molar - hope not!! (there is a cancer risk with them I believe, maybe wrong though!)
At least I never got round to cancelling the luxury ski holiday we had booked! I have to be scanned again next week just to check that everything is back to normal (oh joy - hope it's not dildocam again!)